Nancy loved being part of a bicycle
racing team. Her coach wrote this about a memorable race: “The
race was around Grant’s Tomb on the West Side of Manhattan.
It was multiple laps and twenty miles long. It would be fast.
I was perched atop a small hill, a good place to see the riders,
as they would be going a little slower and I could holler encouragement
and advice to them. The first few laps were comforting. Nancy
and her Axis teammates sat comfortably in the middle of the
group. But then the race picked up speed. Nancy’s job
was about to begin. From where I stood, the racers would appear
from behind the hill, head first, then body, then bike, as
they scurried up the steep hill (they weren’t moving
as slowly as I expected). Then the breakaways came. First the
head, then the body, then the bike of a very strong girl from
Massachusetts . . . then an unfamiliar racer . . . then Nancy.
She was controlling the race for her teammates. Next lap, the
breakaway had been caught up by the rest. Next lap, another
breakaway. This time no Nancy. ‘Move up! Control it,
Nancy!’ I yelled. Next lap there she was, calm, controlling
the race and looking relaxed. Then another breakaway came.
This time two familiar riders of reputable ability. No Nancy.
Another lap . . . no Nancy. One second, two, three, then first
her helmet, her face, her arms, her pumping legs, her bicycle
. . . it was her. With two breakaway riders ahead, Nancy came
over the hill by herself ahead of the rest, chasing, controlling
the race, giving it everything she had to help her team. Nancy
had done her job. She had raced beyond all expectations. I
couldn’t stop thinking, ‘What a great teammate,
what a great athlete, what a great person.’”
Nancy’s coach summed it up
best: “What a great
person.” But what made her so great? Was it her loyalty
and consideration for her friends and acquaintances? Was it
her passion and determination to excel at whatever she got
involved with? Sure, those were parts of it. But as almost
every letter writer conveyed, there was another aspect to Nancy’s
persona that was even more powerful: she had an absolute and
unflagging commitment to what she believed in.
One thing that made Nancy unique
in the circles she traveled was the way she so seamlessly blended
her lifestyle with her
dedication to Judaism. She was a fiercely independent woman
who loved the outdoors, feisty athletic competition, and the
camaraderie of friends from all walks of life, yet remained
an observant Jew in every sense of the word. Those of us familiar
with the modern American lifestyle can attest to the difficulties
of having one foot in that world and the other in a world as
seemingly antithetical as Orthodox Judaism. Nancy seemed to
relish the challenge. As a friend said, “I can’t” was
not part of her vocabulary. Wherever she went, she never hid
the fact that she was observant. She just quietly wove the
threads of her faith into her activities, happily and patiently
explaining her actions and the reasons behind them to anybody
who asked.